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THE STORY OF LOVE!

on January 26, 2013

Love.Such a familiar word! We all need love, without it, it is very difficult to survive! As babies, we need the love of our parents, as teens we need the love of our peers and opposite sex, in marriage we seek the love from our soul-mate.It is a continuous cycle, for each one of us! Most of us feel deprived of love, we feel empty, desperately seek to fill up this gaping wound in our hearts- some people turn to addiction, some take even more harsher measures, try suicide.People who say they don’t believe in love have been badly hurt by it in their lives.It is understandable to feel this way.I just want to say that no relationship is perfect- ever.The most important thing to do is to love and accept yourself as you are! People say self- love is selfish, it is not! Only when you truly love yourself, you can completely love others. Inner self- confidence acts like a magnet!People will be attracted to confident people-it has been my experience! Please build up your own self- confidence before jumping into a relationship, for those already in a relationship, it is never too late. Accept your partner/ friend as they are, do not keep trying to change others- it will never work.People do not change if someone wants them to change, they change, only if they truly want to change! Incorporate these changes in your life! Your life will change dramatically!


25 Responses to “THE STORY OF LOVE!”

  1. Usman sheikh says:

    It’s Really well written… I like it!:)

  2. admin says:

    It is true that one must love themselves before loving others. This does not occur in a vacuum but requires that we know we are loved by God. His unconditional love transforms us. :-D

  3. People don’t change. They can only aspire to be and do better. We can’t change them. But, we can inspire them.

  4. Very well put! I can say from personal experience that if you can’t love yourself than it is very difficult to fulfill the requirements of love around you! and you are 150% correct about confidence attracting people …. its a migration!

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  8. btg5885 says:

    Love your last three sentences in particluar. That is sound advice. Best regards, BTG

  9. Irish Katie says:

    All you say is true T … nod nods. And when you can love youself … and accept yourself, then you do open yourself up to so much.

    You are a beautiful soul … :)

  10. Bonnie says:

    I needed this today. Thank you…

  11. L. A. Howard says:

    Accepting yourself is the hardest task of all! But that’s why we need to rely on God’s Love when we find we can’t love ourselves.

    Good post, my friend!

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  14. Tazein your words and your message shines brightly, and all you say is true. One must love themselves and what completes that is love for God, which then is translated into a self-less life that shares, comforts, heals, loves, lifts and is kind to others no matter what. Our lord came to earth and show the greatest love through His sacrifice, yet as he walked here, he never turned any one away, He gave his spirit of life and love freely without charge to us…and that love moves us to share His love that lives within us. You are a true blessing, keep moving forward for many will embrace the message of your words and turn to him to find the treasure that lives in you! God bless you sister!

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